- This agreement is a contract between Mistress Deshi (“Mistress) and slave … (“slave”). The purpose of this agreement is to describe, in broad strokes, the tone of the relationship, as well as to set out a concrete set of expectations and commitments. There is no duress understood, implied or exerted upon either party, both parties are actively participating in the shaping of this agreement, and, by their electronic signature, both parties do consent to govern their relationship within the boundaries set forth herein.
- Neither Mistress nor slave seeks to do themselves or the other party harm, be it physical, emotional, mental, marital, social, or spiritual. They both agree that in the possibility of the need for the relationship to be terminated, it is desirable to do so with a minimum of rancor or outside involvement. They likewise agree that, whenever possible, they will do each other good, through personal care, financial aid, gifts, the giving of time and energy, or whatever other legal methods might be applied and are possible to apply.
- This contract shall be in effect from the later date of the signatures of Mistress and slave, and shall continue until either Mistress or slave signifies to the other, in writing or verbally, that the “contract is terminated”, in those words. If other words are used, they may be perceived as a joke, temper tantrum, or otherwise invalid.
- Safeword: Mistress and slave, in recognition of each other's deep and abiding needs, choose to enter into a full-time Dominant/submissive relationship, as Mistress and slave. The safeword for needing to renegotiate this agreement is “Equals Now”. The safeword for needing to suspend activities is “badger butter”. If the safeword for either renegotiation or suspension of current activity is called repeatedly for frivolous purposes (more than 3 times), for the duration of the relationship, the responding party may choose to terminate the relationship with prejudice, as the essential trust placed in the other party shall have been breached. (In particular, slave shall never attempt to control Mistress's actions by safewording frivolously. slave acknowledges Mistress's Dominance in this and all things, and shall not attempt to wrest control by "topping from the bottom".)
- Permanent Physical Changes Certain things desired by Mistress may cause permanent changes to the physical body of the slave, such as tattoos, scars, brands, genital maiming, permanent piercings, In this case, slave has the right to withhold permission. This restriction is in place for the duration of the relationship.
- Extra-relationship Sexual Activity Mistress and slave shall both have the option of sexual exploration outside of the relationship. In any case where sexual gratification is sought, given, or received, the sexual contact shall be made as safe as reasonably possible and acceptable to both Mistress and slave. This is true and binding, even if the relationship between Mistress and slave never progresses to sexual activities, or, up until whatever point Mistress and slave come to an agreement of a monogamous union.
- Legal Responsibilities Mistress and slave acknowledge that they may be placed in physically taxing situations, at Mistress's whim, such that physical injury may occur. Mistress and slave commit, in the spirit of partnership, to taking care of each other when they are injured. If it is within the power of the individual who is not injured, this will involve transportation to needed medical treatment, payment for medical care, payment for peripheral medical care (medicines, elixirs, unguents, supplements, bandages, etc.), and, actual physical help and care. No further legal responsibility is either requested or implied by this agreement.
- slave realizes that this relationship with Mistress is for Mistress' edification, amusement, and fulfillment, and agrees to do everything within slave's power to yield to training by Mistress.
slave knowingly and willingly abdicates slave's freedom to Mistress, to be returned only when, where, and how Mistress sees fit, for as long as Mistress sees fit, and slave shall accept all decisions made for him by his Mistress, barring those rights of slave covered by this agreement or any addendums which stipulate otherwise; shall never perform any action, by word or deed, that, by its nature, would bring shame to slave or Mistress, would demonstrate disrespect to Mistress, or disgrace Mistress.; acknowledges that Mistress invests significant time, effort, and emotional stress into slave's training and will strive never make Mistress's job any more difficult than it needs to be, and shall also not attempt to control any situation that Mistress is currently in control of, except at Mistress's bidding; and, slave acknowledges that Mistress will not always be in a mindset to interact with slave on the level that slave may desire (sexually, Dominantly, emotionally, or otherwise)... and thus will perform slave's duties with a minimum of fuss, and shall offer any emotional or other suppor to Mistress that may be necessary
- Mistress shall provide for his slave's emotional, mental and physical care through/during training the slave for proper, full-time service to Mistress, in all facets of what Mistress desires, unless agreed to be some other term of service; shall endeavor to maintain the best home available to herself and, if it is ever decided that slave shall move in with her, her slave, using as much in the way of resources as needed to live comfortably; with the understanding that slaves are resources.
- Both Mistress and slave acknowledge that training is hard, and that Mistress works as hard as or harder than slave during training periods. Thus, Mistress may, at her discretion, declare "free times" for herself and slave, such that they shall be near equals -- these times being used for physical, emotional, spiritual, and other healing, as needed. Each free time shall have an estimated time of completion, and shall be kept short-term. In the event Mistress feels the need to extend the free time, she may do so. Because training is hard on slave as well, and slave needs healing in these matters as well, Mistress may not shorten any free time previously announced without slave's consent.
11. Termination Procedures
In the event of termination of this agreement, both parties agree that any property purchased,
sent, made by the slave or otherwise given into Mistress' possession by the slave, including but
not limited to any monies, becomes or remains the possession of Mistress.
- Any modifications to this basic agreement (after signing) must be made in the form of addendums, which shall be signed by both Mistress and slave, and attached to this agreement. Mistress and slave agree, to the best of their abilities, to abide by the letter and spirit of this agreement for the duration of the contract.
- Survivability In the event that this agreement is terminated, Mistress and slave agree that they still have a responsibility to each other. Specifically, in the event of a termination, there will undoubtedly be some bad feelings. Mistress and slave agree that they will strive to be supportive of each other as much as possible -- even if it means not having any contact with each other for a while. It is hoped that the relationship that is forged will never lead to a dissolution of friendship, but as nobody can predict the future there can be no guarantee that this hope will come to pass.
I, Mistress Deshi, do understand the responsibilities laid out above, and affirm the intention of this agreement as an attempt to forge understanding of rights and responsibilities in a new relationship. I enter into this relationship of my own free will, with no coercion expressed or implied, and agree that the aforementioned responsibilities are what I choose to be bound to within this relationship. By my signature, I affirm my intent to enter into this agreement.
Signed Date
I, <slave's name>, do understand the responsibilities laid out above, and affirm the intention of this agreement as an attempt to forge understanding of rights and responsibilities in a new relationship. I enter into this relationship of my own free will, with no coercion expressed or implied, and agree that the aforementioned responsibilities are what I choose to be bound to within this relationship. By my signature, I affirm my intent to enter into this agreement.
Signed _______________________________ Date _________________________
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