Contract Talk

12/3/2010 2:43:42 PM

For those who have looked at, are looking at, or who will be looking at the contract: It was not written for you, specifically.  Some things are highly negotiable and some things are not negotiable in the least. Financial aspects of service: that this will happen is NOT negotiable; but, how it will happen and to what extent is extremely negotiable. Chastity: That the slave will be non-sexual towards me is not negotiable; the wearing of chastity devices, what kind, for how long are all negotiable. Relocation is not optional; how, when, and where to one does relocate is. Obedience, loyalty, respect, acceptance of punishment are not negotiable; what sort of schedule, punishment, duties are. The lack of use of butt plugs, dildos, strap-ons is not negotiable; the use of manacles, cages, bondage is. This is not necessarily a comprehensive list of all that is not, or is, negotiable; but, it probably covers the majority.Found something else to add, now. It is an email that I wrote to a slave who had looked at the contract, and who has reservations on some issues in a way that makes me think, because of him not totally fitting the contract, he is about to flee. 'You may not be sure that work is compatible with what I want, but, I am sure of it. I think you have built things up too much in your mind. Broken down to its most basic, what the contract says is that you will be a slave who will work for your Mistress, follow her rules, respect her beliefs, and that is because you seek to serve, not because you seek pain or abuse. I am not abusive. And, if you note, it says in the contract, in more than one place such things as 'unless the Mistress chooses otherwise' in regards to punishment, chores, etc. In other words, the contract gives guidelines of behavior and a rough idea of expectations, based on no particular slave, with no knowledge of his net worth or his work schedule or religious beliefs. You would not be signing THAT contract. You read THAT contract, to get a rough idea of if you could live that way. Then, you consider what you could not live with and why, and you find out if that could be changed. And, you consider what you NEED to still be the man of conscience that you are, such as religious meetings, some time with family on certain days, contact by phone, friends being allowed to visit, maybe a free day every so often so you can go do .. whatever ...  And, you ask about that. And we talk about those things, and see if we can come to an agreement that suits both of your needs, many of our wants, and some of our desires.'In other words, slaves, if you read the contract I send you, when I ask you if you want to read the basic contract, or if you ask me to be allowed to read it, you need to keep in mind that the key word is 'basic'. It is not for you. Your contract will be written with that contract as a guideline. So, think about that.