Hint for slaves

12/6/2010 11:07:09 AM

Here is a little hint for you 'slaves':If you decide you do not want to be owned by someone because of trivial matters, like their looks, location (if it is feasible for you to be relocated to them), activity that they want to do that will not affect your religious beliefs, health, mental safety or be illegal, activity that you want to do that they will not engage in because it will affect their religious beliefs, health, mental safety or it is illegal, food that they will or will not let you eat (when you are not allergic and the food is healthful to you), that they prefer you clothed or nude and you would rather be the other way - in other words if you do not want them because they are not bending over backward to mold themselves to your will, and they expect you to show them time, attention, respect, and that you will mold yourselves to their will - then you are not a slave. If you are not a slave, stop wasting the time of those who would own slaves.This journal entry is brought to you by the letters F and U. No, seriously .. I get 'slaves' who are not looking for sex, writing to me out of the blue, telling me they could never serve someone who looks like me - when I didn't even make them any offers, mind you; but, these same slaves write to my daughter - who is not a dominant- and demand to submit to her, based on her looks. Now, would a person who seriously wanted to be owned, controlled, in a non-sexual manner, go after the young, hot babe who doesn't know shite? Or, would they go after the experienced, older woman who has a few decades of experience?Then, of course, there are the slaves who agree with everything my contract says, except, they think they should be beaten more and it should be put in the contract that I will give them 20 lashes a day. Which is, of course, them demanding that I be contractually obligated to serve them in the manner that they think is fit. Which is, of course, the best way to be serving me. Yeah, right!Then, there are the ones who say they agree that there should be no sex. Who then go on to detail how they want to be filled with lust, as I horde their cock away in its chastity device, so that they can rub themselves up against me, perform oral SEX on me, play with my breasts, do sexual things to my arse and their own, and then I can take off their chastity device and 'milk' them. These are people who need a dictionary, a mental health check up, and a sound slap from the Dairy Board. That is so not milk, boys!Then, there are ... oh, never mind. You get the picture. There are so many people on this site who claim to be slaves, or to want to be slaves, who cannot even show basic politeness to the people they are claiming to want to know and possibly serve, who make demands for service from the people they allegedly want to serve, or who reject the people they allegedly want to serve at the merest hint of a problem.Now, I have no issue with slaves who are very much different than I am. I have no quarrel with a slave who is a cross dresser that wants to be beaten twice a day while being called a filthy ass bandit deciding he does not want to submit to me, based on the fact that he knows he would not be happy. I am not one of those who believes that slaves have no right to so much as an opnion, especially when they are free men when I meet them. By all means, look for someone who is compatible, to a great degree - who will not force you into things that will destroy you, who will be interested in some of the same things you are, who is not a sadist if you do not like pain, who is a sadist if you do like pain. It's important to look for compatibliity; but ... Slave: we are all human. Someone is going to put the toilet paper on the roller the wrong way, drop a glass, gain a few pounds, lose a few pounds, want you to scrub the floor when you would rather watch tv, get cancer, recover from cancer, be 5'9' instead of 5'6', age, learn more, want to hike less, and/or etc. No one is going to fit every last little hope and dream you have, every last fantasy you conjure up in your mind.Therefore, you - yes, you, slave - need to get your shite together and figure out, for yourself, what you really want from being owned and how much you can handle. What you need versus what you think you want, what you can live with even though you might not want it. Stop fantasizing, or it will never happen. Fantasies can be perfect. Dommes, Doms, Masters, Mistresses are not. Either are slaves. Do you want perfection? Stay in your own head. Do you want reality? Then, lose the ego trip, read the contract, ask questions, negotiate for what you NEED not what you beat off about late at night, sign the contract, shut  up, bring me tea.Can you handle that?