Explanations

12/8/2010 9:18:25 AM

See the list below, in partial explanation of the list to the left of my profile. I am only doing this for the bits that often get asked about.Lives For:Volunteerism - I used to 'volunteer' by helping neighbors, going out to the streets and sweeping up broken glass and bagging up nasty trash (it was that sort of neighborhood),and many other things besides. I would like to do that sort of thing, again, but, with slaves. Helping people is very important. If you do not like to help people, I do not need you in my life, at all.  Mental Bondage - Slavery is all about mental bondage. You are a slave because,in your mind, you want to be a slave and because, in my mind, I, also, want you to be a slave. We believe it, so it is true, and we act accordingly. One should not have to break down the body or the mind to make a voluntary slave perform his duties and believe he is a slave; he should not need shackles, cages, etc. Those are tools that are useful in teaching the mind how to think, but, true slavery is in the mind, not of the body. Witness Spartacus!  Writing - I am a writer. That is a fact of life. A good deal of why I want to own slaves is wrapped up in the fact that I want to write and I need peace, quiet, and someone to do the other, more mundane things when I am writing. If you are also a writer, or an avid reader, who could help with research, bouncing ideas off each other's head, etc., that is very good. I might make part of your duties being my assistant and/or collaborator. If you are good at illustration and want to make children's books, fancy fiction books, draw things to go with my poetry, etc. that is also good. However, I do not require that a slave be any of those things. I do require that they respect my writing, read the bits that concern them, and that they do not throw away or destroy the things that I am writing, sell the computer the files are on, or anything creepy like keeps happening with non-slaves roommates and family. *sigh*  Christianity - I attend the Kingdom Hall, when I am up for it, read the Bible most every day and sometimes more than once, pray often, and attempt to learn to live my life by Christian principles, not as so many people who profess to be Christians do, but, as they should. And, I did say attempt.  However, this is serious and it does include the fact that I believe I belong to the Christ as you will belong to me. If I mistreat you, I am, in effect, telling him 'This is how I think slaves should be treated. Do the same to me.' I also believe that slavery is not unnatural, but, many things that people want to engage in, which they call true slavery, are very unnatural and I will not participate.  You will respect my beliefs, even if you do not accept them. If I am going to a meeting, you may need to drive me, if I am ill you may need to read to me, if I am writing a talk you may need to listen and tell me if the flow is good, etc. But, I do not force my beliefs on others so do not think I will make you attend meetings, study the Bible, etc. You, Jesus, and Jehovah are all intelligent individuals capable of making up your own minds as to if you will have a relationship together.  Loves:  Shopping - I am not one of those women who believe men prove their worth by their wallet. However, I do actively love shopping. I like going to the Mall and looking at all the pretty, pretty things or window shopping online. I love planning rooms with things I see online and blogging about them, looking for gifts for people,etc. Sometimes, I buy some of what I see, but, shopping is not really about buying, most of the time. It's entertainment. However, if i had the money, I would buy more than I do now, and, actually, it would also go hand in hand with volunteerism. IE: Buy food for someone you know is poor, buy a second hand car for someone you know needs to get to work but they have no way to get there, take a lady or gentleman shopping for clothes they need for their new job or a family for clothes children need for school, buying more comfortable furniture for the arthritis-ridden, etc. Don't get me wrong, though. There are things I need and/or want, for myself, my family, etc. that I would also like to shop for and actually purchase.  Travel - Haven't traveled much at all, but, I like it, in theory. I would love to be able to travel to various places, throughout the world, stay a day or two here, a week or two there. Maybe even have a home in more than one place, for a comfortable change of scenery, on occasion. Even road trips, like doing some of Route 66, going to see some of the natural wonders nearby, camping, would be lovely. Hiking - I only do it bad, and in theory. In too much pain for serious hiking, but, if I was out hiking, I would get in better shape and be in less pain, eventually. I used to walk all the time, when I was a kid. I thought nothing, most days, of a 26 mile walk to town and back, and that doesn't even include all the walking in town once I got there. Since I was in Alaska, not in the city, and often took shortcuts, this was also hiking. Plus, of course, mild mountain climbing was sometimes involved. So, anyway, yes, I would love to go hiking, sometimes, with patient people.  Weightlifting - No urge to be a muscle-bound freak. Lifting weights, however, can be fun and it is certainly a good way to get in shape. I would love to have someone to do it with, who was patient and good at being a spotter. I know a fair bit about split routines, pyramiding, sets versus reps ratio for building muscle or losing fat, and, etc. I just cannot do it alone, anymore; and, I need special shoes to help keep my balance. So, shopping intertwines here! Collars - I do love collars, in that they are pretty and seem to make slaves happier. I only wore them for special occasions, or because I felt like it, as a slave, with the two Masters that counted most. We did not need outward shows with jewelry to define our relationship, and, I still do not. I do not believe a slave being collared is what makes them a slave. Asking a slave 'Are you collared?' is like asking a married person 'Are you ringed?' Which, in fact, I have never heard anyone do. A collar is jewelry, a symbol, not a relationship. So, yes, I will probably give my slaves a collar, for at home or for special occasions, and, maybe a ring or something for when they are away from home and the collar would simply make people nervous. Probably. Because, jewelry is pretty, and it is sometimes nice to touch it or look at it and think of the person who it is associated with. Just don't treat it like a talisman. Housework - I do love housework, both in that, sometimes, I love to do it and in that I really want someone to do it for me, or help me with it. Sometimes it is very relaxing to me. I do not want slaves with attitudes who tell me I cannot do it; nor the ones who think they are above it. Housework binds you to the home, the people in it. We both want that experience, so, hand me the sponge and be quiet. I'll tell you when I need you to put the dishes away. Got it? I have these '15 minute' plans for every day cleaning. I used to have charts for spring cleaning, etc. too. I will probably have them again. I would like a well maintained, well organized, clean home. It will probably be cluttered, but, clean. What can I say? I write, read, paint, draw, want to get back into beadwork, love to cook. Interesting people who love to expand their knowledge and to create make clutter. Good thing the slaves will be there and help to bring order from chaos.  Hypnosis - I do not have extensive experience with this. I have hypnotized myself, I do believe in behavior modification through hypnosis and 'brain washing' techniques, in part; I am all for hypnosis being a part of our home. I am not interested in weird hypnosis sex fantasies. If you need to be hypnotized to feel like a slave, then I don't want you. If you'd like to be hypnotized, to help you focus, remember things better, etc. then maybe that can happen. I would like to be hypnotized for that reason, by someone I can trust.  No Strings Housework - If you are a slave/submissive type who simply MUST wash dishes, clean a carpet, repair some drywall, fix a door, clean a dishwasher, do laundry, cook, etc. then I am open to that. If you want to use the work as a platform by which to launch your campaign to be whipped and have butt plugs shoved into you,  go find someone who cares.  Obedience Training - Obedience training is just another enhancement, another tool, for mental bondage. I do not want someone that I have to break into being a slave. I am quite happy, however, to use these tools to help them where they need more support due to inexperience, fear, etc. Much of the blindfolds, etc. are also tools in the same respect.   Sensory Deprivation - Very good for meditation, hypnosis, etc. I don't have a lot of experience, but, I think it is a great tool for anyone, pretty much.  Uniforms - Helps one to remember which slave is on which duty, whether you are the slave or the owner. Uniforms are fun, and they can be a part of your life, either because you want it or I do, but, I don't need them to be.  Whips - I have always loved whips, found them fascinating. I am not seriously into whipping people, but, I have both whipped and been whipped, a bit, and enjoyed either side of it. May use it as a teaching tool. I do not want slaves who intend to act so badly that they seek people who will use it for punishment. However, if you did do anythng that bad, oh yes, I would use it. Alternative Medicine - Doctors are for things you cannot cure yourself. In general, for my problems, alternative medicine works better: herbal supplements, proper eating, hydrogen peroxide therapy. Very good stuff, that. Don't tell me it doesn't work, as I know it does. Yes, I will probably give you supplements or vitamins, tell you to do oil pulling when ill or make you a broth from a recipe that helps build up your immune system. I use spices, a lot, in cooking, for this reason as well as for taste.  Cooking - I love to cook. I am not trained, it is just that I grew up cooking for a large family. Sometimes, I do it very well. I would love to have a very well-appointed kitchen, with pot racks and food processors, and slaves to help clean them, and, etc. So, sometimes, at least, I will be cooking, alone; sometimes, you will be helping or cooking a different dish; sometimes, you will cook. I am very open to new dishes, spices, etc. but I cannot have milk or cheese, except maybe real feta (made with milk from male goats), or soy, and I want nothing to do with blood. I still eat cheese and soy sauce, every now and again, but, I have to decide when my body can handle it, so it is more a special occasion type of thing. Oh, and I do not eat any sort of raw meat or fish, brains or organ meats in general.  Gardening - Goes along wth alternative medicine, to some extent, as well as nutrition and cooking. I would love to have a very nice garden, with wheat grass, herbs, berry bushes, pear cacti, some fruit trees, vegetables, and, yes, just some pretty flowers, as well. I need at least one slave who could be very good at this, for inside and outside plants.  Meditation - I like it for myself, for slaves, for training, for relaxation. Have a hard time doing it, though.  Intellectual Discourse - If you are a slave that constantly has to ask what I mean, we are not going to suit, no matter how willing you might be. I am not Frasier Crane, for goodness sakes, and I don't like that ego-stroking sort of intellectualism, where people snobbishly drop names of fancy books they read; but, I do like intelligent conversation. Yes, even from slaves. Not arguments, not debates, just conversation.  Nutrition - I believe a lot of what ails the world could be cured by cleaner air, less stress, and proper nutrition - including cutting out things they are allergic to.  Psychology - See mental bondage. Psychology interests me, when I read something about it, etc. And, psychology in action is a natural part of life. Everyone should be using it, because psychology, at its most basic, is simply trying to understand the nature of the persons around you. Not all psychologists believe the same things, mind you, and many of them are silly twits, altogether. However, an understanding of the people you live with is vitally important.  Tolerates:  Female Supremacy - I am a Christian. Think about it.  Hard Limits:  Clubbing - Smoke filled meat market anyone? No thank you. Not looking for a cheap, bad lay and I get ear infections from the smoke, now, so: boring! If you are really into it, maybe I might let you go, sometimes, if you are doing well.  Gambling - $20 in your hand is a sure thing. $1,000.00 you might win with it is not. Aside from which, the gambling industry is all about taking money, feeding addictions. It's gross. You will not engage in this, and either will I. I might put up with milder poker games played solely with your allowance.  Crossdressing - I like men who are men, women who are women, and people who are happy with being themselves. There is no room in my life for men who pretend to be women, or vice versa.  Queening - Is sexual and gross.Since it is considered part of submission, and I do not like it, you will not do it, with anyone.  Watersports - There is a reason babies are toilet trained, and it is not so that they can serve as toilets. Urine is clean, but, the flesh that it goes through is not. I do not want to be involved, in any way, or even to have you in my home if you are going to be into this.  Online Chatrooms - The chat here doesn't work, and I prefer one on one.  Astrology - You will not be involved in this.  Conservative Politics -  Do it, if you must, but, do not talk to me about it.    Libertarian Politics -   Do it, if you must, but, do not talk to me about it.  Nihilism - Too negative, I do not want it in my life. If you must engage in it, do it with someone else, as I will not be preached to.    Occultism - Against my religious beliefs. I will not have someone who engages in this, in my home. This is a very serious matter to me.    Paranormal -  Against my religious beliefs. I will not have someone who engages in this, in my home. This is a very serious matter to me.    Political Activism - Do it if you must, but, don't talk to me about it.  Vampirism -  Against my religious beliefs. I will not have someone who engages in this, in my home.    Hip Hop Music - Is painfully boring to listen to, unless it is twisted into rock, or something like that. I still wince just thinking of the Hip Hop version of Carmen. If you must listen to it, I will alow it, while doing your work or in any time I allow you 'free' time, so long as you are playing it quietly, with a headset on, and/or I cannot hear it.    Druidism -  Against my religious beliefs. I will not have someone who engages in this, in my home.    Mormonism - Against my religious beliefs. I will not have someone who engages in this, in my home.     Reiki - Slightly iffy as some people believe Reiki is just about touch therapy. Touch therapy is good. Some people, however, believe it is about inviting angels, that they pray to, into your body to heal you and guide you. That is also called demonic possession. Angels that follow God do what He sanctions, and they would never answer you if you were praying to them, since that takes away the glory from God. Demonic possession and taking the glory away from God is bad.    Scientology - No thank you. This isn't even religion, to me, as much as delusion. They know that what the man wrote about the staging platform is now quite provably false and now they deny that he knew what he was talking about, and have moved completely past their 'prophet' who founded the religion. Stay away from me, Scientologists! I would help you if you were bleeding, starving, etc. but I would not purposely befriend you and I sure don't want to own you.    Wicca - I put up with exactly one Wiccan, because she is a friend of my daughter, my daughter to some extent, and I love her. She is allowed into my home, despite that she is wearing her Wiccan necklace. I do not appreciate religious symbols of any sort, casting of spells, 'cleaning' the house when you should just be cleaning it, talk of odd goddesses when I worship one true God, etc. So, no, no thank you to Wiccans.