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Be aware that everything I have answered, as to interests, is related to what I myself do, want to do, or want not to do. It is no reflection on what I might put up with in someone else if it did not a, otherwise. So, if you are political, this does not mean I would not accept you as a slave, but, it does mean I would not accept the intrusion of those beliefs to a.
I'm not here to sell myself to you. This is not an advertisement of my wares. This is a profile of a person. If you want to know the person, you will read the profile. If you do not, then, you will not and I will have no interest in you.
In point of fact, I will not respond to you, until I have reason to believe that you have read enough about me to be reasonably sure you are actually interested in me and are compatible with my lifestyle. How will I know that? Well, if you keep reading, you are bound to find out.
God is a very big part of my life. I believe in what the Bible teaches, and, I believe that BDSM can be a part of a total lifestyle that reflects and honors those teachings. Therefore I will not "dominate man to his injury", dress men in women's clothing, commit acts of fornication, incite anyone's members to lust, whore myself by sexually dominating you for money, perform acts that are unnatural - which is often more about why and how they are committed than what is actually done, by the way, or engage in a sexual relationship with anyone I am not married to.
I understand not everyone believes this and that it severely limits my options, in the eyes of people who see such things as gross immorality an option. However, I see gross immorality, not as fun, but, as sad, self-harming behavior so I do not consider it an option.
If you have read this far, send me an email that says "Selah"; nothing more, nothing less.
Female supremacy is a lie, as is male supremacy. We are made to be equals, in a loving relationship. If I own a man as a slave, it is not because I am female and a better class of human being than him. It is because I am dominant and wish to own a slave, and, he wishes to be a slave.
Dominant men are lovely. Not the ones who seek to dominate by the learned behavior of a bully or the serial killer types; they, I have no use for. Men who are confident, who are not afraid to listen and share their life with a woman, who can lead her because they know who she is, are lovely. There is no issue with a dominant woman loving a dominant man, or vice-versa, because it is the strength they have, from birth onwards, which allows them to listen and occasionally to yield, to accept, to lead when it is necessary, and to share without fear or anger.
If you do not agree with these things, that is your choice. Do not attempt to dissuade me or alter me. If you understood anything about dominance, you'd know it won't work. So, your attempts only serve to give notice of your ignorance.
On to the less esoteric bits of profile.
This woman you seek to know, is a mother of four grown children, ex-wife of a madman, former owner of slaves, former slave girl to two wonderful masters and one horrible one; a dire romantic; loud, abrasive; quiet, calm. Eclectic, definitely, weird absolutely.
If you have read this far, send me an email that says "Selah"; nothing more, nothing less.
She loves the things of home life. Cooking, cleaning, decorating, spending time together, family dinners, having friends over to watch movies. People watching is great fun. Shopping is lovely, when there is money, a plan, and a need; or, when it is mainly window shopping, with some possible option to buy in case something wonderful is discovered.
To describe the lifestyle she'd prefer in three words, would be to say "laugh, love, play". There are alternatives which include those elements, which may include "romance, sex" or "owning, controlling", but, it is very unlikely all those words would ever be combined in one relationship. In other words ,you can be a slave, or you can be a husband, but, you cannot be a slave husband.
Spanking, crops, whips, protocols, cages, kneeling, toys of varying sorts, pain, pleasure are all wonderful additions to a relationship, but, a relationship should be two like-minded people who are seeking to share their life together. Even if hey are Owner and owned, they should be enough of similar mind-set that there can be mutual respect and caring, a seeking out of each other's pleasure and best interests. Keeping in mind, of course, that not all pleasure is sexual.
If you have read this far, send me an email that says "not selfish"; nothing more, nothing less.
I am not cruel, though I can be bitchy. I am not greedy, though I can be demanding. I have no desire to tear you down. I want to build you up. Though, that might include tearing down your defenses, first.
Your opinions mean nothing, until I care about you; then, they mean everything. Yes, even if you are a slave. No, this does not mean I would go out of my way to dress to please a slave, but, it does mean I would take their opinion into consideration, as any head of the household should take any member of the household's opinion into consideration, and, then choose what seems to be the best course of action.
So much for avoiding the esoteric, eh? Well, back to trying: I am living in Arizona, and, I hate the summer time here. If I could manage to live a life where the summer could mostly be spent somewhere else, that would be lovely. However, I'd settle for better insulation on the house and a pool. Originally, I am from Alaska, and, I really am Alaskan, as in I was born there and lived all my life, except for the last eight years, there. It is, therefore, home and hearth and what I base most viewpoints on.
As to the rest of me. Well, I will tell you that I have some blogs:
Most of them are only recently started, and, as I do suffer the effects of Fibromyalgia, I am only using them, sometimes. Especially as I have really been concentrating on cleaning up the clutter and chaos of too much happening in too small of a space, for too long with very few people willing to help but many people willing to add to the problem. That is my priority, right now. But, feel free to follow along on the blogs, if you like.
I will mostly be dealing with them, and, not so much with anything here, directly, as I am tired of the liars, the b.s., the social politics of it all; but, I am interested in meeting like-minded friends, and, if something else occurred, like meeting the right sort of slave or a good man who wants a lovely marriage, sanctified by God, that includes certain elements best described, by modern society, as BDSM, that would be lovely, as well.
I might post journals here, as well, which are descriptive of ideas, ideals, things I'd like to happen in my life, and will give potential slaves an idea of what I am hoping to find. As with anything else I write, I understand it is not necessarily for the majority, but, then, I am not looking to be served by everyone. xx
If you have read this far, send me an email that says "Profile done"; nothing more, nothing less.
9/18/2011 4:04:46 PM: So, here is some interesting news. Basically, my son brought me home a slave, last night. lol Well, he's not a slave in the sense of making a formal agreement, contract, me setting out specific rules for him, him calling me Mistress, etc. Yet, he is a young man who showed up, slept on the couch outside (as there was nowhere inside for him to be), offered to help in the process of cleaning up, noticed a few other needs and made suggestions on ways he could address them, and, basically, wants to be allowed to pay $10 per day to be allowed to come over, have a meal, sleep somewhere besides on the streets and have a shower, with the understanding that he will be helping cook and clean. So, he is far more slave-like than anyone I have met on any of the BDSM sites or through any advertisements I have placed, anywhere, ever, in decades. That's all I want out of a slave is a mutually beneficial arrangement, agreeable to us both, that comes with respect and trust. If I told him he was a slave, he probably wouldn't enjoy it. Or, he might turn sexual. So, I won't tell him. I'll just enjoy him in the relationship he offered and I accepted. Now, are there any slaves who would do as much? If you've read this journal entry, send me an email that says 'this is how a slave should be'; nothing more, nothing less.
9/18/2011 4:04:46 PM: So, here is some interesting news. Basically, my son brought me home a slave, last night. lol Well, he's not a slave in the sense of making a formal agreement, contract, me setting out specific rules for him, him calling me Mistress, etc. Yet, he is a young man who showed up, slept on the couch outside (as there was nowhere inside for him to be), offered to help in the process of cleaning up, noticed a few other needs and made suggestions on ways he could address them, and, basically, wants to be allowed to pay $10 per day to be allowed to come over, have a meal, sleep somewhere besides on the streets and have a shower, with the understanding that he will be helping cook and clean. So, he is far more slave-like than anyone I have met on any of the BDSM sites or through any advertisements I have placed, anywhere, ever, in decades. That's all I want out of a slave is a mutually beneficial arrangement, agreeable to us both, that comes with respect and trust. If I told him he was a slave, he probably wouldn't enjoy it. Or, he might turn sexual. So, I won't tell him. I'll just enjoy him in the relationship he offered and I accepted. Now, are there any slaves who would do as much? If you've read this journal entry, send me an email that says 'this is how a slave should be'; nothing more, nothing less.
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