Journal Entries for DangerousArt:

Journal Entries for DangerousArt: 7/26/2010 6:29:14 AM My viewpoint on training: No one should ever need to be trained to be a slave or a submissive. Why? Because, either you want to give in and give to, to serve, or you do not. It is your natural state of being and cannot be learned. Everyone needs to, at least, be told how to serve a certain individual. Maybe they need to be trained for that, if there is some special protocol or real skill necessary. IE: If I had a slave or sub, and I wanted them to give proper massages and they did not know how, then, they would need training to do that; or, I'd need to find a different one for that purpose. The upshot of this is that I do not have any use for slaves and submissives that come begging to be trained to be a slave or submissive. That's utter bullshite. If you can't control yourself, get medication, therapy, drink less coffee, or deal with the fact that you are not a slave or a submissive, you're just some freak that likes a good beating. Maybe you're even a Dom or Domme that likes a good beating. Figure it out, and do it somewhere else! I want real slaves and real submissives who WANT to serve, who HAVE to give, or none at all.

7/25/2010 12:32:18 PM Part Six: 35. What if you do not meet all the slave’s BDSM needs? That depends on what those needs are. I am open to some negotiation, to listening. I want my slaves to be happy, after all. a. Will your slave be allowed to fulfill those needs in other ways? Possibly, depending on what those needs are and the terms we have agreed upon. i.If so how? I believe I already answered that, above. But, in case I missed something, we would discuss what the slave's needs are before they ever became my slave. If they wish to meet someone to fulfill some sexual need, and all it is for is to fulfill that sexual need, that is their lookout, on their own time. If they wish to serve someone else, that is my lookout. 36. Will the slave be allowed personal time? Of course. How much will be discussed individually; but, most of us have friends, family, a need for variety. 37. What about any possessions the slave has? a. Who will keep the possessions if the slave leaves? Whatever the slave has, now, belongs to the slave. Whatever is given the slave as a gift belongs to the slave. What the slave purchases for their enslavement or for me, belongs to me. Further explanation: You have a car, I hate the seat covers. I buy you new ones - it may even be with your money, but I buy them for you. They are now yours. You will not presume to remove them from the vehicle without permission as long as we are together, except to clean them, but, you may keep them or sell them if we decide to end this arrangement. You wish to experience sensory deprivation, I tell you to buy the latex sheet thingy. That is now mine, to be used by you and any other slave I choose to use it on. It stays when you go, unless I just don't want it. If you wish to be flogged for your pleasure, and I agree to it, I may order you to bring me a flogger. It is now my flogger. If I tell you to dress in a certain outfit for that treat, the outfit is yours. 38. Will the slave be allowed to visit friends? Absolutely a. Can friends visit your slave? Yes, but, not while they are serving me at my home. Back to the pleasure palace in my brain: if the slave has friends that are understanding and respectful of their lifestyle, then, yes, they may visit, even there. Otherwise, the slave would need to make other arrangements. Perhaps we could have a small one or two bedroom apartment or SFR off to the side, somewhere, for when vanilla folk are visiting the slaves or me.

7/25/2010 12:15:29 PM Part Five: 16. Are you naturally dominant? Yes. Hence the story of Joey. 17. Do you have a mentor that you are active with? Not currently. a. How did you learn to be a Dominant in BDSM? By 1) just being myself and the slaves and subs responding to that 2) being actively put in charge of slaves and submissives, most particularly the ones no one else wanted to deal with. 18. Where will your slave sleep? When visiting, they will sleep on cushions, on the floor (unless they are naughty, then no cushions) near to me. When at their home, in their bed. Unless they are naughty, then I will have them hire movers to take their bed away and put it in storage until they have earned it back. Or, they can move it themselves. 19. What books would you recommend for your slave to study in order to learn more about you and the way you live your BDSM life? The books I have written, the books I will write, the Holy Scriptures, A Thousand and One Arabian Tales, anything about Tudors or Pharoahs or Roman aristocracy, my journals, my blogs, my rough draft writing. a. Are there any books you identify most with? Where the Wild Things Are : But, Max said 'No.' get it? 20. Are you looking for this slave to be permanent? For now, anyway lol I mean, yes; but, life happens. We could both change our minds. We could both meet someone lovely and fall in love and .. love is its' own form of slavery.

7/25/2010 12:06:44 PM Part Four: I skipped question 11, because it made no sense in these circumstances, but, you certainly may ask it, as we are getting to know each other. 12. How do you expect your slave to contribute to the household? If they are living in their own home still, they will come here to do work as needed (possibly on that previously mentioned schedule), or to take me out and entertain me. They will pay for things as they can, and what they can pay for will be discussed and considered before ever they are accepted as slaves. 13. How many slaves are currently in the house? Currently, none. There are those being considered. a. Do you expect that number to grow or shrink? Grow. Since this is not about love or sex, I see no reason for monogamous slave ownership. 14. How will you enforce the rules with your slave? That depends on which rules they are. In some cases, I will have control of the slaves money. That is a very good enforcement device. There may be shunning, there may be floggings, there may be corner time. It really depends on what the rules are for the slave and how and why they need to be enforced. Every slave is different. But, I will not have the sort of slaves who act the brat and must continually be put in place. I want the slave who wants to serve, to be cherished. 15. How long have you been interested in the lifestyle? Since I was breathing. a. How long have you been active in the BDSM community? I am not active in the BDSM 'community' as I am a private person. However, the first time I served someone I was 12 years of age (no it was not sexual, you perv) or maybe 11, hmm . 10? 9? Ahh.. I get confused. I think 12. The first time anyone served me, I was 2 or 3. Little boy named Joey, a very devoted slave, even though neither of us knew it at the time. Followed me everywhere, did exactly as he was told, and I protected him from his sister. So, it's been a while. (grin) No, that was not a 'serious' answer, but, it was truthful. b. How active are you in the BDSM community? I don't do scenes, I don't do munches. I am interested in gathering a few lovely slaves and submissive types, preferably who can get along with each other as well as serve me, and to make our own little pleasure palace, commune sort of thing. That would be, for starters, probably a duplex or triplex or a SFR with a guest house so there could be slave quarters and my quarters. Fix it up, put in a decent garden for a good slave or two to tend, make it all comfy, pay it off, and maybe later expand, either in the same yard if it is big enough, or by finding some nearby property to fit other slaves. Assuming there were other slaves and they didn't need to stay where they are. I do not insist that my slaves and submissives stay out of the community, though. I am a private person, I prefer to eat with people I know, to share life with those who mean something to me. If they wish to go to munches or scene with people, then, they can ask permission.

7/25/2010 11:51:14 AM Part Three: 6. How will you keep consistency in the relationship with the slave? We will discuss particulars of their work schedule, family life (ie: do they have children who they see every weekend, do they need to be gone every December 25), and a basic schedule will be developed that they will live by. If I need to alter the schedule, I will inform them. If they need to alter the schedule, they will ask me. In either case, we will listen to the other person and come to an agreement based on how important the alteration is. IE: I want you to go to a warehouse in Phoenix, and buy me a lamp; you need to go see your ailing mother. You win! There may be other things, such as keeping journals, little rituals. 7. Do you want to be emotionally involved with you Slave? Yes a. If so to what extent? To the extent of enjoying each other's company, possibly even being friends of a sort. 8. What protocols do you want your slave to follow? If we are together and alone, or with the sort of people who understand best, you call me Mistress, you sit at my feet unless given permission to do otherwise. If we are out in public, you open doors for me, unless I feel like doing otherwise. You push buttons for the elevator. If we are at the Mall and I need to use the restroom, unless I have given you permission to be elsewhere, you wait for me in the hallway. You carry the packages, you do the driving. If we are at a restaurant, I tell you what I want (or I tell you to choose something or that we will share something) and maybe I tell you what you want: you order. If it is a buffet, you go and get what you are told or we walk together and I will tell you what to put on the plate. You say 'Yes, Ma'am ' and 'No,Ma'am' and 'Please' and 'Thank you.' as is appropriate and you treat all persons with respect. I think you get the gist, yes? 9. Do you plan to have intercourse or other sexual acts with your slave beyond BDSM scenes? I do not plan to do so, even within BDSM scenes. I may or may not touch them, but I will not have sex with them. 10. Who will be using the slave and how? a. Who will the slave interact with? The slave will interact with their normal, vanilla world unless and until I find some part of it not to their best benefit (no abusive girlfriends or boyfriends for you!) And, with whomever, inside of BDSM, that I give them permission to interact with. And, sometimes, with my family, and then they will be expected to be themselves, but still polite. They will call me by my name, in these instances. b. Who will the slave have sex with? If the slave is married, with their spouse. If not, I would just as soon they have sex with no one, but, as sex is outside of the realm of their service to me, except as it might affect me if they are not careful in their choice of partners or the lack of use of condoms or birth control, etc., it will be more of a don't ask, don't tell thing. I do require that slaves are honest with their partners. I will not have jealous partners coming after me because they think we are dating. c. Who will the slave submit to? Me, and only me, unless instructed otherwise; however, they will be polite to everyone. d. Who will the slave scene with? I have no one in mind. If I decide to, I might loan or rent the slave out for non-sexual service, including scenes. If so, it will be well discussed with the slave, first. I might also allow others to use the slave as punishment, if they have been very naughty. It will still be non-sexual.

7/25/2010 11:31:52 AM Part Two: 4. How far into slavery do you expect your slave to go? To the point of realizing that they are still citizens of a country where they still have rights. So, you know, to the point of realizing this is consensual and we both better be happy and well taken care of. This will also have to be discussed with individuals; but, I have in mind that the more privileges a slave has, the easier it is to punish them when they are in the wrong. Can't take away things that they do not have, and I would much prefer to take away your bed, because you refused to go to it, than to stay up all night beating your arse for it. 5. What if things do not work out? Then, we will talk it over and see if we can sort it out, or, if not, we will go our separate ways. I may require them to purchase their freedom, or I may not. Regardless, unless it was due to circumstances beyond either of our control, they will have retained their vanilla domicile, clothing, car, employment, etc. a. Where does the slave go? Unless we have entered into an agreement that alters what I said above, then the slave has no need to go anywhere. They will purchase their freedom and move on with their life. Now, if we have a pleasure palace scenario going on, as I fantasize about from time to time, where we live in a four plex or something, and several of them are paying for it, etc. I will retain their share in that place as part of the purchase price of their freedom. But, they will either still have another place, or they will be allowed time, just paying their fair share of the bills, to save up money and move on. Or, they can stay, if we are in agreement that we can still dwell together. As with most, if not all, matters, there is leeway for discussion on particulars of concerning individuals. b. What happens to the slave? I believe I just answered that. c. Who makes the decision if the slave needs to leave? That depends on circumstances. If the slave is acting horribly, making me miserable, then I make the decision. If the slave is miserable, they will come to me and tell me why and then I will make the decision, ultimately. Because, maybe it can be worked out. If the slave needs to go home or take care of their family, or has come to have some religious or other moral conviction that slavery is wrong, or wrong for them, then they make the decision, but, we share in the process of coming to a mutually satisfying conclusion.

7/25/2010 11:20:05 AM PART ONE: I am answering the questions found here:http://mistressjenn.com/PDF/OwnershipQuestions.pdf because I think they are important sort of questions to ask, and to answer. and I am hoping it will save me some time and trouble, down the road. KEEP IN MIND THAT THESE ARE GENERALIZED ANSWERS They may be altered, to some extent, to suit our needs, compatibilities. 1. What do you expect from your slave? Obedience, reasoning ability, truthfulness, service, loyalty, respect Absolute acceptance of absolute ownership, from top to toe from soul to wallet. Also, 'take good care of yourself, you belong to me' as the song says. 2. What can the slave expect from you? Caring, respect, to be there as the object of their needful desire to serve, understanding when they need it, discipline, definition to their lives, and that I will look out for their best interests. 3. Define: a. What a Slave means to you? Slaves are for total ownership. They may have a contract going in which specifies certain conditions will be met, but, otherwise, outside of the basic responsibility for their health and safety, I can do what I want with them. If I want to send them to Seminary school, or to learn how to dress hair, or I decide I'd like them better as a blonde or that I want to dress them up as Patty the day time hooker clones, they will obey my instructions. There is always leeway. I mean, I'm not a horrible task master, and I do not punish for reasonable failure due to circumstance, but, I will for failure due to poor attitude or lack of effort. b. What a Submissive means to you? For my purposes, submissives are still owned, but, more only in relation to other Mistresses and such. As in, I can help them find work, or order them what to do to get to work on time better, I can suggest they go to school, but, where I actually have the full power to order them is within their direct service, obedience, and loyalty to me. If they go off and decide to be a stripper, I decide if I want them in my life. But, that part of their life belongs to them, unlike with slaves c. What a Dominant means to you? Well, there are Doms, who are playing a role, and like with police officers who claim to protect and serve, you have to respect the uniform, even if you know that, in fact, it's just some big, blustering bully coward pretending to be what he or she is not. There are also people who are simply dominant. Some of them choose to serve rather than to be served. It is about their inner strength, their natural abilities, not what role they choose to play. d. What a Master or Mistress is to you? Persons who are in control of other persons, to state it simply. However, control in itself, is not as simple as people often think. To be a good Mistress, I must listen, observe, consider, and act in the best interest of my submissives and slaves. I cannot just expect them to do things for me and then go on their way. I have to help them learn how to be at their best in this service, including how to deal with the other areas of their life. It is not me take, you give. Even when it seems like that is all there is, on the surface level, I am choosing to let you give because you want to - I am giving you my time, my energy, my acceptance of what you are and you are taking them from me, as much as I am being given your devotion, your energy, your service and I am taking them from you. It is a symbiotic relationship. e. What do you feel Edge Living is? A dreadful waste of time??? Well, I think where it starts depends on what you are used to, but, it is, obviously, living in the extreme, courting danger - pain, blood loss, blood drinking, other things that are just not healthy activities - taking a chance on possible loss of health in pursuit of pleasure. f. What do you feel Edge Play is? Anything that does or could result in permanent change or damage. Poking holes in the body, anywhere, surgical procedures, cutting, burning, drowning, things of that nature. And, yes, I would classify plastic surgery or even dental surgery in that category, if it is unnecessary for the well being of the person. And, yes, I would be willing to engage in some of that, but, not all of it, and not all the time. The plastic surgery bit, that is. I would love to have this one operation wherein they suck the fat from other bits of your body, process it to alter it into breast fat and pump it into your breasts. I also like hydrogen peroxide therapy, which is both traditional and edgy.

7/25/2010 10:38:58 AM I wrote this to someone specific, but, others might find it helpful: Tell me, then, slave Could you accept these facts 1) Mistress does not want your sexuality, not for use or abuse2) You are not just a slave by what you do when you are with her.3) There are no limits to your slavery, except that you will be guaranteed the right to keep enough for basic food, shelter, and water; and you will be guaranteed no permanent alteration of the body that you have not consented to.4) You must exercise, eat, dress the way you are told to.5) Slaves are for the betterment of the Mistress, she owes them nothing.6) You must be, therefore, grateful for what you receive or are allowed to retain.7) If the Mistress chooses, she can demand you change your employment, study a new lifestyle, change your hairstyle,or anything else that will not cause you permanent physical or mental damage.See, slave, I am tired of people who think that being a slave means that they get to demand to be used sexually, and I get to perform for them. I need someone who will simply do as they are told, who wants to please, who wants to serve, who derives pleasure from being needed and wanted for what they can do and who they are, not for their flesh.

7/25/2010 9:38:41 AM Well, TakeAdvantage and I hit a hitch, a matter of some possible miscommunication. Therefore, as a matter of honor, I have released him back into the wild, until such a time as he comes to me, knowing what it is I am about, and begs to serve this Mistress. If he does, that is. In the meantime, nominate gaysmith as the sexiest bot going!

7/24/2010 11:43:35 AM Hmm .. someone recently said to me that when you are not looking for something, it comes to you. Well, I stopped looking, and lo and behold, a chastity boy came my way, wishing me to hold his key. One who actually understands that it is not the province of dommes to simply do for others with no return. So far, I am very pleased.

7/23/2010 4:12:11 PM Ignore those bits below. I am no longer seeking service from anyone. Just models. Thank you

7/23/2010 1:26:23 PM Step one: If you wish to be a model for me, and nothing more, write to me at artistworking@live.com. You must say you want to model in the subject line and give your profile name that you use here. I will, then, send you a release that you must print off, sign, scan, and return. After that point, you may send me photos, which will not be of, or showing, genitalia. That is the same step for those wish to be a model and possibly something more. Those who do not want to be a model may skip this step. Step Two: You will send me your email address at artistworking@live.com,, along with your profile name. I will then send you a request from Pay Pal for $25.00 You will honor that request within three days time. If you do not honor it within three days time, you will be blocked, hidden, and forgotten. By honoring this request, you are proving to me that you understand that you will be used in any and all ways that your Mistress sees fit to use you. If you know you would like to honor it, but, are not able to now, then do not start the process yet. Finally, for the rare dear who really wants to serve, is within driving distance, but only wishes to serve in capacity of their skill, which they know can benefit me (such as that lovely hair dresser I was talking to before), they may write to me at artistworking@live.com, with the subject line 'Offering only skill', to tell me what they have to offer. Oral is not a skill!