Journal Entries for SlavesNotToys: Pt. 5

7/6/2011 2:29:58 PM

If you were a man and your goal were to serve a woman, wouldn't you seek a woman who needed to be served? Then, from there, move on to one who wanted it?   If you were a man and your goal were to be a sex toy, wouldn't you seek a woman who wanted a sex toy to play with? Then, from there, move on to one who had interest in some of the same kind of sex that you do?   If you were a man and your goal was to be a pain slut, wouldn't you seek a woman who wanted to inflict pain? Then, from there, move on to one who had interest in the same sort of torture that you hoped to receive?   The point being, if you are seeking to serve, torture, use, or, whatever you are into, why do you flit about, willy nilly, from profile to profile, attempting to force something that is simply not there.  You want a dominant woman, you found one. Good for you. Now, prove you want a dominant woman, by actually listening to her, rather than trying to mold her to fit your needs, and, certainly, rather than getting offended because she wants you to serve as she needs service, not as you want to lead her into 'being served' for your benefit.   If you want a woman who will let you grovel at her feet, use a whip on you, or, otherwise give you exactly what you want, when you want it, then, go and find a slave girl who is a sadist, is my suggestion. Dominant women are going to want to be themselves, not to serve you.