Journal Entries for SlavesNotToys: Pt. 7

7/5/2011 8:32:20 PM

I quote, to you, a profile read:   ' More times more than not, there are those of Us who like to play at being a Dom. There are also those among U/us who have no clue what it takes to be a true Dom. The players among U/us usually have a general misunderstanding of what it takes to be a true Dom. Many are cruel, selfish, snobby, and self-centered.        A strong Master knows when to listen to His sub or slave and does not attempt to push them away. I fully believe that a true Dom must first Master Himself before He can master another.   I believe that a true D/s relationship begins with friendship. I am seeking a sub or slave who is searching for friendship with the possibility of a 24/7 relationship. I am searching for someone 25-40, unattached, drug and disease free, willing to eventually relocate. She must be fully aware of the implications of a true 24/7 D/s relationship and willing to accept them.   I consider Myself to be a strong willed, no nonsense kind and sincere Dom. I love to joke around and have fun, but when fun time is over, I am all business. I do not and will not put up with disrespect, dishonesty, or a lack of self being. I do not believe in doing things halfway. I will dominate not only the body, but the mind as well.      I am more than willing to answer any and all questions. I respond to every email even if it is to say “No thanks, not interested.” Favorite Quote, ' A Master never has to demand ritual behavior from their submissive. Their submissive responds out of the want of pleasing them. Compliance comes from the wanting to please, not the fear of punishment'.'   Now, then, tell me, again, how no one else thinks like me. Or, tell me how no man could possibly understand it (for this is from the profile of a man). Or, tell me how no one else could see my point of view as dominant (when the man is a Dom). And, then, I'll  point out to you that he quoted someone else at the bottom f his profile, who, also, thinks the same, at least in some respects. So, that makes at least three of us.    You know why? Because, regardless of whatever kinky things we are, or are not into, we are into bdsm, but, what is most prominently displayed on this site, and, on all the other sites, is not bdsm - it is vanilla people seeking to work out their mental health issues, or, to escape their dreary little lives.    Guess what? I don't have a dreary little life. I'm poor, always been poor, often oppressed, quite often ridiculed for what I think, believe, look like, how very poor I am. But, I am never bored and I never have to make excuses or pretend to be something I'm not, and, that's why I'm dominant, and, you are not.   'Oh, but, I am!' you say? Well, then, if it's true, assume I wasn't talking to you. lol