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12/28/2010 12:10:23 AM |
Look, what I want is NOT complicated. See, there is this language, called English, which has many dialects and slang words, yes, but, it also has a basic set of words and phrases that really mean what they say, or close enough, so that when someone says 'slave' the people listening know that they mean 'unpaid worker that is going to work it's pretty arse off for me, make money for me, be a part of my life, follow orders, be polite and respectful to all, and generally not be an uppity bitch with delusions of godhood and way to many demands about what I should put up it's arse.'
Get a frigging dictionary and a thesaurus! There are some online. Now, look up the definitions and use the smallest modicum of common sense:
I want a slave, or a few slaves, who will serve me in every aspect of however I NEED them to serve, with the exception of those ways which would break their spirit, mind or body.
They don't have to be pretty, old, young, tall, short, fat, thin, male, female - but, they do have to be fully male or fully female, without dressing to pretend to be the other sex.
They don't have to be rich, poor, atheist, religious, introverted, extroverted, or anything else EXCEPT .... LOYAL OBEDIENT HARD WORKING THOUGHTFUL CAPABLE LISTENING ACCEPTING OF PUNISHMENT but never seeking it and their fetish, their primary fetish must be to do things for other people out of a sincere and deep, driving need.
BONUS POINTS if they write real stories or novels, not technical books and not pornography or gore/horror schlock.
They must not be 'toilets', and they must not expect sex with me.
Now, stop asking frigging stupid questions, sort your shite out, and if you really want to be owned by a truly dominant woman, rather than just to have your arse diddled by another fetishist, get in touch with me.
And, yes, dearhearts, I WILL test you! If you refuse to participate, then I know you are a fake. So, bye!
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12/27/2010 6:10:49 PM |
You know, when I was a slave, what I wanted to know, primarily, about anyone I served is 1) Are they going to respect the things that I cannot do (physically) or that I just will not do (social, spiritual, law abiding vs law breaking stuff)? 2) Are they any good at giving orders?
You can tell a lot about how serious someone is, not by how much they threaten you with pain (which anyone can do), but, by if their orders are clear, and, their willingness to clear up reasonable misunderstandings without resorting to insane bouts of screeching.
If they take being your owner seriously, in the positive aspects, they are almost certainly going to take the rest seriously, too.
Because I do not go around telling people that I am going to grind their face into the dirt, after spitting in their mouth, right before shoving a broomstick up their arse, because they failed to hang the toilet paper right, they assume it means I am incapable of grabbing them by their hair, pulling them down to their knees and standing on their head with one foot, while I whip them, for getting far too lippy and free with their speech.
Now, would I do that? For that, probably not. For insulting my mother, almost certainly.
Example? Fair enough. When my ex was still my husband and it had already been established that I could kick his ass, when he tried to beat me down one day, we came to a sort of truce. Allegedly. See, it was time for a family gathering. We decided to go to where mine was, as his didn't like him and no one liked them. But, I demanded a promise from him that he would not start insulting my nephew or acting rude to my mother, etc. We had a good, long talk about it and he promised. We get there, and, within minutes, not only is he acting rude, but, he is walking toward my nephew, saying horrible things and with his fist raised. So, I grabbed both his wrists while reaching up to secure a finger of each hand and bend them back as far as they would go without breaking. And, I put my knee in his back and pull his arms backward until he loses his balance and goes down gently to his knees. Then, I told him 'You promised me. Now, you can't stay.' and marched him out, put him in the vehicle and made him stay there. I had the keys. Yes, he could have left, but, I also had his wallet and all the money, and our children and the keys to the apartment.
Tried to beat me down one day? Yes. He told his friends, right in front of me, that he was going to bitch slap him a bitch. And, I told him we are not having that sort of relationship, so if he raises his hand to bitch slap me, he's going to find himself being the bitch that was bitch slapped with his own bitchy little bitch hand for trying to bitch slap a bitch. He did not believe me. Until he was down on the ground and I was slapping him in the face with his own arm.
I am strong, fast, intelligent, and resourceful. Not as strong and fast as I used to be, but, you know, more than enough to deal with the average man who is not insane, but, who does not want to be a slave; so, surely, for those who are going to be obedient, there should be no problem at all.
Of course, the more you doubt me, the more I don't want you. |
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12/27/2010 12:12:44 PM |
'The practice of S/M is the creation of pleasure. … And that’s why S/M is really a subculture. It’s a process of invention. S/M is the use of a strategic relationship as a source of pleasure.'Michel Foucault
Do you agree?
Before you go further, here are two very important, time saving questions.Be honest with yourself and answer them to yourself.: 1. Are any of your fetishes related to bodily fluids, emissions, or other releases (blood, urine, feces, scat), animals, children, extreme abuse up to the removal of body parts or the drawing of blood, burning with cigarettes, or anything of a similar nature? 2. Do you love, like, or live for any of the things which are on my hard limits list, over to the left - as in you are unwilling or unable to do without them in your life? If the answer to either, or both, questions is yes, goodbye. If the answers are both no, proceed.
I am not a fetishist. I do not seek fetishists. Some milder slave fetishes may be accommodated. The questions below will help to determine if we are of similar mindset. Answer them and I will tel you if it seems we should proceed, thereby saving us a lot of time, one way or another.There is another saying , I enjoy: 'Start as you intend to finish.' I am not here to converse randomly with slaves. I am here to create a strategic relationship as a source of pleasure - mutual pleasure. You want to be trained to the will of another, I want to train another to my will. There is our common ground. Now, let us see if there is further compatibility. If there is, we will discuss contracts, and, if all goes well, begin to serve and be served, in short order. I am, however, taking the advice of both sayings, and I am not compromising on those things most important to my lifestyle. I would have a better life with slaves that fit into it, yes; but, I would have a worse life with slaves who did not, whatever their earning capacity or other charms. Money is not everything, either is kink. Compatibility of personality and a working toward common goals are what brings people together. There are rules for the reading and use of this profile. Read it through and follow the rules.If you send me messages without doing so, I will probably delete them and block you. Rule # 1: If you are a slave or submissive, do not contact me without reading this profile in full, regardless of whether or no you wish to apply for the position of being my slave. However, if you do not wish to apply for the position, state so in your first message, after reading it, and feel free not to answer the questions, etc. Rule # 2: Do not expect me to initiate contact. It may happen, but, I doubt it. Even if I do, Rule # 1 applies. Rule # 3: I need serious slaves who are ready to begin the process of becoming real, in-person, full time, 24/7, 365 owned slaves-actual (as in workers, companions, entertainment; not lovers, not friends). By the reading of this profile and taking action, you will be showing me that you are one of them. Do not begin answering the questions, unless you are sure you want to be owned, and you want to be considered as a potential slave for me. There is plenty of information in my journal entries, to help you decide. Rule #4: I am not here to be judged by slaves. My ways are what they are. True slaves will reorient themselves to my methods. Do not ask my interests, or what I will or will not do to, for, against, or with you. When I have reason to believe you are acceptable to me, you will be told what you need to know. Rule # 5: This is not so much of a rule as a statement of fact: I love God; I believe that Jesus is his Son, who died for our sins. I tell you this, here and now, because so many 'slaves' claim that I never mentioned this to them (even though it is mentioned several times in journal entries, and usually mentioned on my profile, and definitely mentioned during conversation). If this is going to be a problem for you: goodbye! You may give excellent service, but, no one does enough to make me think I would choose them over God. Rule # 6: Answer the questions below, cutting and pasting them into a message and giving your answer below each question, in a neat and orderly manner. Do not ask, or try to guess, what answer I want. What I want is honesty. If the answers are acceptable to me, we will have a more informal discussion by email. 1. Are you looking for a domme (woman who is a sexually dominant play or romantic partner) or a dominant owner (someone who sets the rules and punishments, guides, teaches discipline, in a non-sexual, non-romantic capacity)? 2. Are you seeking sexual play, physical pain, emotional pain, or acceptance? What is your primary motivation in being a slave? What do you think makes someone a true slave?3. Are you truly relocatable? How long would it take you to relocate, and, why? 4. Is your entering into service contingent upon living conditions? How so, and, why? 5. Would you rather give or have it taken by force? (Regardless of what 'it' is) 6. Does who you choose to accept as your owner is hinge upon them fulfilling your fetishistic or sexual needs - must your owner utilize them to motivate you to service? Or, are they something that you could forgo, altogether (or, do part time with someone else) for the greater pleasure of being allowed to be in full time service? 7. What are your religious and political beliefs, or lack thereof, and how important is this stance to you? Does whom you choose as an owner hinge upon their religious or political beliefs being the same as your own? 8. Do you want a Mistress who is a goddess, claiming to have powers over you, controlling your will and forcing you to perform vile acts? Or, would you prefer a kinder, gentler Mistress who is only harsh when you have displeased her, who can be put on a pedestal, but, never wishes to be worshiped as a deity? 9. If someone sets you the task of cleaning the kitchen, does your head fill with ideas related to sponges, scrubbers, how to operate their dishwasher? Or, does it fill with thoughts of you in stockings, face ground into the linoleum by the booted foot of your owner, feeling your butt plug jiggle in fear, as you are growled at and told that you did it all wrong and must do it again? Which of these two scenarios, above, comes closer to your thought processes? 10. Can you serve a woman who is/will be married to another man? What if the man was made your Master? What if he was just her husband, no one's Master? What if he was a slave? What if she were his slave? 11. Are you prepared for the possibility of signing a contract, a letter of intent, and/or whatever else is necessary for a fully legal, binding agreement, complete with exchange of address and other contact information, notarization of documents, and etc? 12. When someone says 'service' to you, what thoughts pop into your head? Is it more about oral worship, or vacuuming?
13. Which sounds better to you: quiet but stern or vicious and bitchy?
14. Which sounds better to you: weird and wild or sedate and classy?
15. Which sounds better to you: sexual domination only or total domination without sex?
16. Which sounds better to you: waiting for your Mistress to return home or traveling?
I will read and consider your answers, your profile, and decide if we shall continue past this point. As I will read your answers, your profile, and judge if you seem to be compatible, on top of answering the questions, you would be wise to go and rethink your profile as most of the 'slaves' I have encountered on here, thus far, have done a rather bad job of representing themselves. Rule # 7: Rethink your profile and make appropriate corrections. Your profile should reflect a) (live for) those things that must be a part of your life, because without them you would break, and (hard limits) those things you cannot live with, because living with them, you would break. b) (hate) those things which would be suitable for punishment, or which you hope not to have to engage in, but, which you will engage in if ordered. c)(love) those things which, if an Owner wished to reward you or see you smile, they could give to you, do to you, or allow you to be a part of. Rule # 8: You will also change your profile, ceasing to seek other dominants or anyone besides friends. At the top of the section where typing can be done, you will announce that you are being considered by me. Rule # 9: You will write to me and ask me, specifically, to consider you. Rule # 10: You will send a photo or video that has you (I need to see your face, your eyes) holding a sign that says 'Please consider me, Mistress Arletta?' or something of a similar nature, to prove your existence. Or, you may write it upon your body. Rule #11: If you want to know what I seek, think, feel, what interests me, then, learn to read. I will not reply to you if you ask, for now, as I have provided much by way of journal entry, and you may also look up my yahoo blog. In fact, Googling my name should provide you with much information, since very few people on the planet have this name, and, even less of them are 42 years of age, Caucasian looking, and in Tucson, Arizona. Obviously, the rules, above, are for the sake of slaves who are in the beginning stage of getting to know each other. We will discuss things in more detail, after the rules are followed, and they may ask questions after I have proof that they have read at least some of my journal entries. Since it has been asked: Yes - slaves, submissives, Masters, Dommes, Mistresses, or any other persons who feel the urge, may freely use these questions as a means of screening, or as an enhancement to their profile or journal entries.
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